Anna has shown a real improvement in her eating the last few weeks. Still far from normal for her age, but she "gets" hunger finally it seems. She has more consistent "go to" foods that we can count on for her to eat when offered.
Right now she is really enjoying some plain oatmeal with brown sugar stirred in for breakfast. She won't finish a whole bowl, but close to half. And more importantly she eats it steadily, she doesn't purposefully spill it or throw it (she drips, but just because she is still working on those spoon skills) and she smiles while doing it....no whining or crying.